Sharing a story of Love, Joy & Success. Giving you 3 tips on how to make the results you want.

Today I am making this blog very personal. I believe we gain from other people sharing their successes and what they did to achieve it. We can take what we can project or transfer to our own lives and use it to upgrade ourselves.

In August I had a MILESTONE ACHIEVEMENT. First time standing up in public for many years. It was during a short motivational speech on "Disability as a state of mind". Standing for a few seconds is HUGE when you have been sitting like forever - or many years. Also when it is yet at "selected days" where my body is up for it.

A little prehistory:
I was run over in 1998 and as a consequence I was paralyzed. I have been sitting for years without being able to feel or move my feet and legs and with massive nerve pain. An immune system that went down and the right side of my body functioning differently than the left side (top to toe). Coordination between them yet to come :-)
3 years ago I started to turn it around. "I changed my mind" and my body in the good sense.


3 of the most important steps you can take and master to reach your success are:

1. Love yourself. Love your body - ALWAYS !!!!
2. Follow your Joy.  It will give you more energy, happiness and of course more joy.
3. Listen to your intuition and take action according to your inner wisdom.

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For Joy, Love & Success

Kristina Seia Sangvita
All Is Support

Can you imagine that everything in your life and in your kids life is support? Imagine that All Is Well.

Imagine you get divorced and All is Support - All Is well. If you have kids imagine that they have the "right parents" even though the other parent is different than you thought he/she would be.

There are so many stories we can tell ourselves. 
That you choose the wrong parent/partner for your kids, that it was the wrong partner for you ...
But you did choose this person - unless it was a partnership forced on you.

Can you imagine your kids being able to use the experience to grow? That they now know something new and now know even more what they want in life so they can go get it. Imagine that you now have even more clarity what you want for you so you can choose to go get it now.

It can be this simple. The partner you choose were hopefully someone you enjoyed very much at the time you choose her/him and he/she choose you.
Now someone else is the "right for you".

Or an example from my own life. Last Friday I so much wanted to participate in a dance party celebrating the clubs 25 years birthday. I woke up tired and exhausted. I needed even more rest and sleep and throughout the day I couldn´t stay awake. I did some kundalini yoga as I do every day and then I slept some more. In the evening I could have chosen to pull myself up and out of the door. Knowing from experience, I would easily have been sick and feeling real bad in my body for the next 4-6 weeks, if I had used my body as much as I wanted to by going to the dance party that night. I chose staying in my duvets and bed, and had a wonderful time relaxing there. Just what I needed even though I missed a 25 years anniversary dance party with fun.
It was too high a price to pay making myself sick, and I absolutely felt better staying at home that night.
 

If I had felt it would have given me more energy to go of course I would have. We need to stay in touch with ourselves and when we do so the right decisions comes along. 

You can choose to exercise and believe All Is Well - All Is Support. 

We have so many choices. Our mindsets and values are some. The most basic are.

When we grow up we are often encouraged to choose and believe in our parents mindsets, the school system, part of society (in some contries in churches, doctors, ...) ... Sometimes the values salute us, makes us expand, glow and grow. Empower us and we have a party living. At other times they do not. Some of our belief is influenced by cultural aspects. 

Many grown ups are taking classes in leadership, empowerment, personal development, more education, .... 
Also here we get to choose. Which values and which mentors we consult and belief.
It is so simple. Do we or our mentors belive in our ability to achieve goals in each level in life, to feel fantastic and awesome no matter what, or do they say: "We are so sorry for you", "Poor little you", "Someone did you wrong" and so on. 
I believe it is most important to listen to our inner true and integrity. When we want to learn new stuff or mindset then examine which mentors resonate the most. 
Sometimes we do take a stand feeling the empowerment. As time goes bye perhaps we discover new values. Now we have a new stand and a new trueth.

Three examples:
1.  At some point in life some people have "the poor little me", "the other persons/parents/schools/society faults". It can be empowering for a person who shall discover his/her right for example to be angry, to allow themself to be who they are ... When that has been learned and learned about thier own reponsibility in life they can move on to a new upgrated mindset.

2. If I have a toothache. I can coose to see it as the universe are confident in my ability to handle it. To see it as: Upgrate in the rooths. The old system is not enough anymore and better will come.
I take very good care of my teeth and though I do that they sometimes react. There can be taken so many views: 

• Genetic 
  
• Do I have inflammation somewhere in my emotional rooths and now it is time for a consious upgrate ... 
  
• It can be the gate to something much better.
  
• I could also go with the poor little me. Feeling sorry for myself, talking about injustice...
  
• Letting the anxiety for loosing all my teeht take over. That would absolutely be dis-empowering myself. I rather choose the mindset where I belive in my ability to handle and land great solutions.
  

3.  Do you believe in your ability and unique gift to earn monye with joy, love and integrity?
It is a choice. What empower you the most?

When believing in our ability to handle and acomplish we most often are able to. It is the premise for achieving.
So choose the mindset that empower you the most, for what you want to achieve in your life and for who you want to be.
Take your leap into more joyful leadership. Leap into more empowerment. Choose the mindset where you are your own C.E.O. in your life.

For Joy, Love & Success
All Is Support
Kristina Seia Sangvita 

Every year at the 1th. of May it is the International workers´day. In dansih it is called The workers´ international fight day.  
Again this year it made me think of my mindset and how different it has been through the years.
The "fight rhetoric" is old-fashioned. Do you realy want to live in country and society where only your own stand and view matters or only view from someone who think oposite you? No thanks. I want to live in society where there are room for people and their different needs.  Coorporation and co-existance.

When we create a fight in our minds and rhetoric then it will be. If we are at peace inside and in our language and what we do it will show in us self and in our suroundings.

Growing up I learned to fight. I did not learn peace back then. That I have becomed to master as a grown up.
It can absolutely be good and nesesary to be able to to react if someone attac you and you need to go somewhere safe. That being said where I have gotten the absolutely best results is when I am at peace. Dalai Lama does, Nelson Mandela did. ... 
When we are at peace life expand in precious and glorioous ways.

I believe in both political and in our personal leadership it is a choice to practice peace and coorporation. 
We know Nielson Mandela became to feel at peace while he was in prisson. We know he became to be a world transforming leader through his inner peace. 

Lets take our world to the next level. Starting with usself at peace.

Have a fantastic peacefull 1th. of May. 
Peaceday, thank you!

For Joy, Love & Success
All Is Support