Can you imagine that everything in your life and in your kids life is support? Imagine that All Is Well.

Imagine you get divorced and All is Support - All Is well. If you have kids imagine that they have the "right parents" even though the other parent is different than you thought he/she would be.

There are so many stories we can tell ourselves. 
That you choose the wrong parent/partner for your kids, that it was the wrong partner for you ...
But you did choose this person - unless it was a partnership forced on you.

Can you imagine your kids being able to use the experience to grow? That they now know something new and now know even more what they want in life so they can go get it. Imagine that you now have even more clarity what you want for you so you can choose to go get it now.

It can be this simple. The partner you choose were hopefully someone you enjoyed very much at the time you choose her/him and he/she choose you.
Now someone else is the "right for you".

Or an example from my own life. Last Friday I so much wanted to participate in a dance party celebrating the clubs 25 years birthday. I woke up tired and exhausted. I needed even more rest and sleep and throughout the day I couldn´t stay awake. I did some kundalini yoga as I do every day and then I slept some more. In the evening I could have chosen to pull myself up and out of the door. Knowing from experience, I would easily have been sick and feeling real bad in my body for the next 4-6 weeks, if I had used my body as much as I wanted to by going to the dance party that night. I chose staying in my duvets and bed, and had a wonderful time relaxing there. Just what I needed even though I missed a 25 years anniversary dance party with fun.
It was too high a price to pay making myself sick, and I absolutely felt better staying at home that night.
 

If I had felt it would have given me more energy to go of course I would have. We need to stay in touch with ourselves and when we do so the right decisions comes along. 

You can choose to exercise and believe All Is Well - All Is Support. 

Dear You.

Do you know a time in your life where giving up were the best thing happening to you?

In many places it is totally unexpected to give up. It is a taboo. People, society, familily and friends are saying "You must FIGHT", "keep going". Sometimes that is absolutely the best to do. But not always.

Sometimes it is better to give in and give up. Yes I said it. And I mean it. I have had mentors speaking of cycles and in withdrawing, time to meture something, ... Those are also true. But sometimes the best thing is to give up.
Then something totally unexpected good, near magical comes along and make it even better than you ever knew were possible. Weel it is. If what you are up to doesn´t work and makes you feel bad, if you have tried to get better in this area and you still feel awefull it is time to do something knew perhaps give up.

Newly I again saw and heart a specific interview with Wayne Dyer. Finaly someone else also had the words to explain. It made sence on a deeper level. It was just like a very serious matter I once went through. He talked about giving up. Be or get to that point where you "just" give in and give up. Then a shift can take place and you live from somewhere new.

It can be at soul level or a particulair matter where you change. When it is a big deal and something really matters in your life and for you to listen to and follow your heart and visdom truth. You are ready to take the consequences nomatter what they are because it is YOU.

Personly I am alive and I am VIBRANT HAPPY because I at once gave up. Before I FOUGHT. I was a FIGHTER. Back then I thougt giving up was no good. I am not talking about not having strainght. But to say no to something to be able to say yes to new. Saying yes to you and to life.
To me let to my biggest change in life.

Sometimes we need to give up, to let go to let in. These kind of life transormation we sometimes not know are comming. If you are a fighter it can be valuable to know.
Giving up can sometimes be the very best thing to do to let in something much better new. Your soul and you.