Imagine you get divorced and All is Support - All Is well. If you have kids imagine that they have the "right parents" even though the other parent is different than you thought he/she would be.
There are so many stories we can tell ourselves.
That you choose the wrong parent/partner for your kids, that it was the wrong partner for you ...
But you did choose this person - unless it was a partnership forced on you.
Can you imagine your kids being able to use the experience to grow? That they now know something new and now know even more what they want in life so they can go get it. Imagine that you now have even more clarity what you want for you so you can choose to go get it now.
It can be this simple. The partner you choose were hopefully someone you enjoyed very much at the time you choose her/him and he/she choose you.
Now someone else is the "right for you".
Or an example from my own life. Last Friday I so much wanted to participate in a dance party celebrating the clubs 25 years birthday. I woke up tired and exhausted. I needed even more rest and sleep and throughout the day I couldn´t stay awake. I did some kundalini yoga as I do every day and then I slept some more. In the evening I could have chosen to pull myself up and out of the door. Knowing from experience, I would easily have been sick and feeling real bad in my body for the next 4-6 weeks, if I had used my body as much as I wanted to by going to the dance party that night. I chose staying in my duvets and bed, and had a wonderful time relaxing there. Just what I needed even though I missed a 25 years anniversary dance party with fun.
It was too high a price to pay making myself sick, and I absolutely felt better staying at home that night.
If I had felt it would have given me more energy to go of course I would have. We need to stay in touch with ourselves and when we do so the right decisions comes along.
You can choose to exercise and believe All Is Well - All Is Support.
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